“Alright!! I made bad decision”.

“Ahhh… i should do this before. I regret it”.

Those might be words that out from your mouth, after you failed at something and/or you choose one of the options you thought it was bad decision.

In our life, by present, we will serve by two options. By two options, there will be a what-we-called risk, can be bad and good. The thing is you never know, it will be bad or good for you in the future. If it works, sure you will be (very) happy. But if it doesn’t work, sure you will be very-more happy (you wish! Ha!), nah.. let’s be honest, you will be very disappointed. Life sucks! Yesss… most-of-time we blame “The life”. But wait, it doesn’t stop there folks.

When you choose over a thing that you-called-wrong-decision. the people around you, (i am pretty sure) very-not-so-few blame yourself, yes YOU! (but soo very very few support you hahaha eat that shit, ups joking)

So people blame you, and you blame life.

But how if you change your mindset. How if we start to learn for whatever you-called-shit-situation that leave you in regret. By start to learn from it…

But… no no no, let’s be humanist. Start with your disappointment, next learn, and say thank you for the past.

“What can i learn from my mistake and/or failure?”.

Really???

If your eyes can still working, look with those eyes.

If you’re not blind, use your eyes properly. even the blind one can still see with their heart.

I am sure 101% you and/or we (please including myself as a human) can learn something from our past.

Life always gives you two options or many. You will never know what the future holds.

Here’s my not-so-tips, if you want to take it, no pressure folks…

● Say thank you to people that blame you, take the critique by ideas and learn. leave the critique by people (throw it back to them). Don’t confuse with it.

● Say thank you to Life, and learn. Ahhh also say sorry to Life. Cause it doesn’t involved when you made your choice.

Remember, you can learn from your past, and/or you can dwell in it. These always gonna be your options.

Living your life at best, as always learn and enjoy.

–Dearmariana–